Saturday, May 14, 2005
Confidence self esteem...How useful is the cycle of destruction and creation for confidence?
Confidence self esteem
"A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us." -Antoine De Saint-Exupery -(1900-1944, French aviator, writer)
Just like cycles in each hurricane season, the whole process of renewal is repeated but this can be a destructively brutal concept to accept.
Sometimes in order to create something new that works in your life, it is like a leap of faith…you’ve just got to destroy what doesn't work.
It’s true, to have what you want, you can't play it both ways, you may just have to face the facts and give up what you don't want.
Dear Friend,
Hey thanks for stopping by to take a closer look, you’re much appreciated.
So, what's this self esteem workbook got to do with you?
Well, like you, I too was once lost in a sea of confusion, but wherever you are in life, 95% of your habits determine your thoughts, feelings and actions so I urge you to soak up this lesson.
Life is often a whirlwind and it's a waste of your time, effort and energy to "try" and change something about you…or your life!
Like trying to pick-up a pencil or trying to have a successful relationship, or trying to meet the love of your life.
How many times have you caught yourself out saying: "well, okay, I'll give it a try"
Listen, either you do something about the situation, or you don't.
If you want to be a confident individual, now is the time to look at the things standing between you and your success.
Time to make the decision to choose success.
Of course, if you feel is a futile attempt, I want to bid you fair well for the rest of the day, because tomorrow you’ll be questioning your motives and decisions…just holding yourself back.
Doing it again…again…and again…sounds like a familiar tune!
If you’re similar to me, I don’t know how long you can continue to wear yourself out, playing the same ole’ tune and still have the energy to create something new.
Could there be a much more balanced and happier means?
Almost immediately that questions gives me a spine-tingling sensation of Kali…wow…now she’s a fascinating character.
Kali is supposed to be the compassionate destroyer, but a little bit on the darker side of the feminine symbol for the cycle of destruction and creation in Hindu Mythology.
It's important to remember that the cycle of devastation represents a necessary evil in nature, btw is happening right now as we speak.
You can't have life without death…one without the other.
Bottom line, you’ve got to make room in your life if you're going to make changes and attract something new.
For example:
If your life reflects exactly the way you want it to look, and you've got everything you want, be grateful that you’ve chosen this path.
The tones of the Tao Te Ching message are similar because you’ve got to be doing the same thing for the right reasons.
It’s the value of what is in this moment, which is made available, by what isn't.
In other words…
It's the “space” or emptiness in a vase that gives room to hold water.
It's the door in the wall that allows you to enter the room.
Sometimes, you’ve got to bite the bullet and head out for the rising sun, because it’s part of your cycles in learning and taking action.
This is the concept of visualization…
For example:
If you filled your mind with positive thinking, and created a mind-set of success basically you’d have room by replacing old limiting beliefs.
Remember you're going to try, because you do it, and you do it with all of your heart with the intention of completed what you set out to do.
Now that’s an environment that would result in success.
Take a moment now to picture yourself, thinking and acting like a confident and successful person.
Do you believe if you encouraged positive thinking in the things you do, new actions, and opportunities will rush in to fill the void or vacuum.
Once you’ve made the commitment to change and this means improving the way you build and enhance your self-esteem…
Do you feel (deep down) inside this things will happen?
Here's something else to help delete the limiting beliefs.
As you become more aware of how you talk about yourself (self-talk) your whole belief makeup, you’ll notice how people treat you, too.
be less interested in hanging out with people who were stuck in "loser" attitude.
Finally, you could even delete using the word “try” and get on with doing something worthwhile in living life to your fullest each day.
On a side note the strangest things can happen like all of a sudden your attitude makes room for a new set of values and interests.
By the way, don't bother hanging out with people who are stuck in the "trying" to do because they’ve not the same opportunities as you.
On the other hand, if you don’t choose to be like most people you’ve created that opportunity…out of thin air, so to speak.
Picture yourself being brutally honest with your sword, and detach yourself from what's not working.
You'll be amazed at how quickly the void is filled with things that do work.
In other words choose the things that cause you to see and affect how you feel leaving less room for distractions.
In conclusion…make room for success in your life.
The cycle of destruction and creation does in fact work for whatever goal you choose because you delete and stop doing the things you don’t want, make room for doing whatever works in your life.
Glowing confidence and self-esteem, you're learning the fastest and easiest way.
Stay tuned for an important message you'll want to read because your next self-image step is to be someone who can do the things necessary to have what you truly desire in life...
Thanks for reading, I appreciate you. Looking forward to catching up with you soon.
Yours truly, Johni
Confidence self esteem ¶ 4:27 PM
"A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us." -Antoine De Saint-Exupery -(1900-1944, French aviator, writer)
Just like cycles in each hurricane season, the whole process of renewal is repeated but this can be a destructively brutal concept to accept.
Sometimes in order to create something new that works in your life, it is like a leap of faith…you’ve just got to destroy what doesn't work.
It’s true, to have what you want, you can't play it both ways, you may just have to face the facts and give up what you don't want.
Dear Friend,
Hey thanks for stopping by to take a closer look, you’re much appreciated.
So, what's this self esteem workbook got to do with you?
Well, like you, I too was once lost in a sea of confusion, but wherever you are in life, 95% of your habits determine your thoughts, feelings and actions so I urge you to soak up this lesson.
Life is often a whirlwind and it's a waste of your time, effort and energy to "try" and change something about you…or your life!
Like trying to pick-up a pencil or trying to have a successful relationship, or trying to meet the love of your life.
How many times have you caught yourself out saying: "well, okay, I'll give it a try"
Listen, either you do something about the situation, or you don't.
If you want to be a confident individual, now is the time to look at the things standing between you and your success.
Time to make the decision to choose success.
Of course, if you feel is a futile attempt, I want to bid you fair well for the rest of the day, because tomorrow you’ll be questioning your motives and decisions…just holding yourself back.
Doing it again…again…and again…sounds like a familiar tune!
If you’re similar to me, I don’t know how long you can continue to wear yourself out, playing the same ole’ tune and still have the energy to create something new.
Could there be a much more balanced and happier means?
Almost immediately that questions gives me a spine-tingling sensation of Kali…wow…now she’s a fascinating character.
Kali is supposed to be the compassionate destroyer, but a little bit on the darker side of the feminine symbol for the cycle of destruction and creation in Hindu Mythology.
It's important to remember that the cycle of devastation represents a necessary evil in nature, btw is happening right now as we speak.
You can't have life without death…one without the other.
Bottom line, you’ve got to make room in your life if you're going to make changes and attract something new.
For example:
If your life reflects exactly the way you want it to look, and you've got everything you want, be grateful that you’ve chosen this path.
The tones of the Tao Te Ching message are similar because you’ve got to be doing the same thing for the right reasons.
It’s the value of what is in this moment, which is made available, by what isn't.
In other words…
It's the “space” or emptiness in a vase that gives room to hold water.
It's the door in the wall that allows you to enter the room.
Sometimes, you’ve got to bite the bullet and head out for the rising sun, because it’s part of your cycles in learning and taking action.
This is the concept of visualization…
For example:
If you filled your mind with positive thinking, and created a mind-set of success basically you’d have room by replacing old limiting beliefs.
Remember you're going to try, because you do it, and you do it with all of your heart with the intention of completed what you set out to do.
Now that’s an environment that would result in success.
Take a moment now to picture yourself, thinking and acting like a confident and successful person.
Do you believe if you encouraged positive thinking in the things you do, new actions, and opportunities will rush in to fill the void or vacuum.
Once you’ve made the commitment to change and this means improving the way you build and enhance your self-esteem…
Do you feel (deep down) inside this things will happen?
Here's something else to help delete the limiting beliefs.
As you become more aware of how you talk about yourself (self-talk) your whole belief makeup, you’ll notice how people treat you, too.
be less interested in hanging out with people who were stuck in "loser" attitude.
Finally, you could even delete using the word “try” and get on with doing something worthwhile in living life to your fullest each day.
On a side note the strangest things can happen like all of a sudden your attitude makes room for a new set of values and interests.
By the way, don't bother hanging out with people who are stuck in the "trying" to do because they’ve not the same opportunities as you.
On the other hand, if you don’t choose to be like most people you’ve created that opportunity…out of thin air, so to speak.
Picture yourself being brutally honest with your sword, and detach yourself from what's not working.
You'll be amazed at how quickly the void is filled with things that do work.
In other words choose the things that cause you to see and affect how you feel leaving less room for distractions.
In conclusion…make room for success in your life.
The cycle of destruction and creation does in fact work for whatever goal you choose because you delete and stop doing the things you don’t want, make room for doing whatever works in your life.
Glowing confidence and self-esteem, you're learning the fastest and easiest way.
Stay tuned for an important message you'll want to read because your next self-image step is to be someone who can do the things necessary to have what you truly desire in life...
Thanks for reading, I appreciate you. Looking forward to catching up with you soon.
Yours truly, Johni
Confidence self esteem ¶ 4:27 PM
