Self Confidence Boosters: "Glowing Confidence and Self-esteem"…Exposed!
Saturday, July 09, 2005
Confidence self esteem...Drop it and then pick up the ball and run with it...
Confidence self esteem
“If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.” - Booker T. Washington -
Now before you jump head first into this lesson, I need to ask you a favor.
Please can you help me out…I don't really want everyone hearing about this, just you.
Dear Friend,
How are you doing…thanks for your company, I appreciate you.
Remember that little thing I told you about...
Umm let’s see...
I think it was about, oh, three weeks ago…well, I'm sure you really enjoyed learning how to change your self-image.
Works like gangbusters huh...shhhh...jeez...don't be so loud.
Yeah, the self-image did the trick its a great way to start the day.
Well, I'm a poet and I don't evn know it
Remember, you're just getting a taste of all the material I freely discuss and I'm not giving you pie-in-the-sky "magic formulas"…everything I give you from personal expereince.
Now you know I care about you and my belief in you is strong so I'd like to share a little secret, actually more of a kick in the gut lesson from the school of hard knocks.
You can’t beat that kind of insight and fortunately for you this self-confidence thingy comes from my heart.
Let me share with you one mind-blowing truth about the ‘secret’ of self-confidence.
Have you noticed how many self-help books are claiming to give you instant self-confidence?
Actually, the whole subject, to tell you the truth is a little over exaggerated, but that’s not what I want to discuss because there’s a place for these books.
Lol…yeah, but of course there is Ha! Ha! Ha!
Jeez, no better way to make a fast buck than to take a peak at the ego.
What I want you to think about is how could a reasonable person make such a claim?
Shhh…this is between you and me, this might offend you but it must be said.
Listen closely, there really is some truth in these wild claims but ultimately you don’t have the complete picture so you most likely don’t do anything with these books.
Hey, they make good stops…but can you handle whatever else is being dished out?
If you want the full story, you’ve basically got to write the rest of the script yourself.
Another problem nowadays is that most people don’t even know what’s it like to feel 100% confident anymore...you've lost touch and are just too busy being busy...understandable?
They’re living down for the count on a diet of soda, junk food, medication, and toxicity, and if they go a week without constipation or a pounding headache they think they’re in good shape.
What’s all this got to do with your self-confidence?
The demand…in short, the pile-up that happens from people every week who want a quick fix is bothering the heck out of me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah…it’s really not their fault...of course not, or it would be a perfect world.
They’ve been constantly bombarded and conditioned to react without asking themselves why?
Simply, my subtle message to you is this…
You'd be crazy to think that by not taking responsibility for your own actions, this kind of behaviour isn’t exactly what you get...but does it work for you?
Obviously somethings will work better for you than others but until you put what you learn into practice, it is just stimulating theory and how’s that going to impact your life?
Life gives you the ability to practice by learning new skills and that happens from trial and error.
It might not be fair but that is the only real way you can learn…from actually doing it.
So you should be delighted and thrilled because mistakes and failures are part of the package…no excuse that you will fail because I want you to…lol…you heard right.
Failure it’s only a failure if you decide to give-up or stop doing something.
On the other hand a secret is a truth about something you’ve not discovered yet, so you know very little about it...that's just the way it is.
What’s the secret when it comes to genuine confidence and self esteem?
It secret goes something like this…self-confidence is an attitude that needs to be cultivated over a period of time.
The time frame will vary from person to person.
In most cases you can feel instant confidence, like it appears overnight to fall out from thin air, but in reality the truth is this kind of artificial just add water self-confidence will never last very long.
For example:
Confidence is similar to a seed in that you prepare the mind by fertilizing the soul.
You’ve got to work at it because only then can you plant the seeds of confidence and begin to reap the rewards.
You wouldn’t expect to plant a seed and grow a tree overnight but that’s what most of people believe because they’ve read a bunch of fairytales like Jack and the bean stalk.
Self-confidence consist of a series of little growth spurts which build-up and accumulated over time…
The key is taking daily consistent steps, not just one big one when you feel like it.
If you want genuine quality self-confidence, the stuff that keeps on growing stronger, lasts and lasts, then you’ve got to improve your focus.
Focus simply gives you the clarity to work on priorities that way you make it a habit.
No matter how many times you repeat to yourself that you are the best person alive you will not gain authentic, permanent confidence.
Real self-confidence and self-esteem comes from your own experience in taking daily action.
It comes from learning how to deal with difficult, seemingly impossible situations.
Does that mean that self-help books are useless? Not at all…they are tools to help open your mind to new ideas and to see how others are doing what you want to do…and eventually master.
Books and tapes, etc do give you that initial boost of motivation necessary to get you to face your fears and experience those difficult situations.
Yeah but you can’t expect to read a book and end the lesson there, now you’ve got to live and breath it…make it an experience.
You need to go out there, live your life and realize that you can make mistakes and fail but you will at some point be able to handle any situation presented to you. It takes discipline.
You’ve got to feel good about being uncomfortable. Only then will you have real confidence and living proof that you are prepared for anything.
Remember, anyone can develop instant self-confidence…it’s easy yet short lived…so you’ve the choice between a miraculous process or…
A proven down to earth process that prepares you to achieve real success then you will go out there and grow your self-confidence in the field of your dreams called life, not by sitting around reading about it.
If you’re the kind of person who sits around reading self-help books all day without applying any of it then you’ll forget about everything you’ve learnt.
I'll give you two choices to pick up the ball and run with it...take it or leave it…your decision won’t affect me the slightest, but you can impact your confidence and change your life forever.
Here’s the deal…do the things you would normally feel uncomfortable doing.
Smile…and go out of your way if you have to.
Walk right up to a perfect stranger and start a conversation.
Practice your conversation and listening skills.
Do everything you can think of to improve your people skills.
Do everything you can with the knowledge I've shared with you so far.
Do you know what I want you to do?
I want you to go practice step-by-step the lessons I’ve shared with you so far. Got it?
Go out and challenge yourself to overcome your shyness in favor of self-confidence.
It's your choice!
Turn off your computer, go out in public and present the self-confident real you…do something by getting of your backside right now.
I welcome your feedback or suggestions as I’m committed to you living a happier life with the help of glowing confidence and self-esteem.
Confidence self esteem ¶ 3:37 PM 0 comments
“If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else.” - Booker T. Washington -
Now before you jump head first into this lesson, I need to ask you a favor.
Please can you help me out…I don't really want everyone hearing about this, just you.
Dear Friend,
How are you doing…thanks for your company, I appreciate you.
Remember that little thing I told you about...
Umm let’s see...
I think it was about, oh, three weeks ago…well, I'm sure you really enjoyed learning how to change your self-image.
Works like gangbusters huh...shhhh...jeez...don't be so loud.
Yeah, the self-image did the trick its a great way to start the day.
Well, I'm a poet and I don't evn know it
Remember, you're just getting a taste of all the material I freely discuss and I'm not giving you pie-in-the-sky "magic formulas"…everything I give you from personal expereince.
Now you know I care about you and my belief in you is strong so I'd like to share a little secret, actually more of a kick in the gut lesson from the school of hard knocks.
You can’t beat that kind of insight and fortunately for you this self-confidence thingy comes from my heart.
Let me share with you one mind-blowing truth about the ‘secret’ of self-confidence.
Have you noticed how many self-help books are claiming to give you instant self-confidence?
Actually, the whole subject, to tell you the truth is a little over exaggerated, but that’s not what I want to discuss because there’s a place for these books.
Lol…yeah, but of course there is Ha! Ha! Ha!
Jeez, no better way to make a fast buck than to take a peak at the ego.
What I want you to think about is how could a reasonable person make such a claim?
Shhh…this is between you and me, this might offend you but it must be said.
Listen closely, there really is some truth in these wild claims but ultimately you don’t have the complete picture so you most likely don’t do anything with these books.
Hey, they make good stops…but can you handle whatever else is being dished out?
If you want the full story, you’ve basically got to write the rest of the script yourself.
Another problem nowadays is that most people don’t even know what’s it like to feel 100% confident anymore...you've lost touch and are just too busy being busy...understandable?
They’re living down for the count on a diet of soda, junk food, medication, and toxicity, and if they go a week without constipation or a pounding headache they think they’re in good shape.
What’s all this got to do with your self-confidence?
The demand…in short, the pile-up that happens from people every week who want a quick fix is bothering the heck out of me.
Yeah, yeah, yeah…it’s really not their fault...of course not, or it would be a perfect world.
They’ve been constantly bombarded and conditioned to react without asking themselves why?
Simply, my subtle message to you is this…
You'd be crazy to think that by not taking responsibility for your own actions, this kind of behaviour isn’t exactly what you get...but does it work for you?
Obviously somethings will work better for you than others but until you put what you learn into practice, it is just stimulating theory and how’s that going to impact your life?
Life gives you the ability to practice by learning new skills and that happens from trial and error.
It might not be fair but that is the only real way you can learn…from actually doing it.
So you should be delighted and thrilled because mistakes and failures are part of the package…no excuse that you will fail because I want you to…lol…you heard right.
Failure it’s only a failure if you decide to give-up or stop doing something.
On the other hand a secret is a truth about something you’ve not discovered yet, so you know very little about it...that's just the way it is.
What’s the secret when it comes to genuine confidence and self esteem?
It secret goes something like this…self-confidence is an attitude that needs to be cultivated over a period of time.
The time frame will vary from person to person.
In most cases you can feel instant confidence, like it appears overnight to fall out from thin air, but in reality the truth is this kind of artificial just add water self-confidence will never last very long.
For example:
Confidence is similar to a seed in that you prepare the mind by fertilizing the soul.
You’ve got to work at it because only then can you plant the seeds of confidence and begin to reap the rewards.
You wouldn’t expect to plant a seed and grow a tree overnight but that’s what most of people believe because they’ve read a bunch of fairytales like Jack and the bean stalk.
Self-confidence consist of a series of little growth spurts which build-up and accumulated over time…
The key is taking daily consistent steps, not just one big one when you feel like it.
If you want genuine quality self-confidence, the stuff that keeps on growing stronger, lasts and lasts, then you’ve got to improve your focus.
Focus simply gives you the clarity to work on priorities that way you make it a habit.
No matter how many times you repeat to yourself that you are the best person alive you will not gain authentic, permanent confidence.
Real self-confidence and self-esteem comes from your own experience in taking daily action.
It comes from learning how to deal with difficult, seemingly impossible situations.
Does that mean that self-help books are useless? Not at all…they are tools to help open your mind to new ideas and to see how others are doing what you want to do…and eventually master.
Books and tapes, etc do give you that initial boost of motivation necessary to get you to face your fears and experience those difficult situations.
Yeah but you can’t expect to read a book and end the lesson there, now you’ve got to live and breath it…make it an experience.
You need to go out there, live your life and realize that you can make mistakes and fail but you will at some point be able to handle any situation presented to you. It takes discipline.
You’ve got to feel good about being uncomfortable. Only then will you have real confidence and living proof that you are prepared for anything.
Remember, anyone can develop instant self-confidence…it’s easy yet short lived…so you’ve the choice between a miraculous process or…
A proven down to earth process that prepares you to achieve real success then you will go out there and grow your self-confidence in the field of your dreams called life, not by sitting around reading about it.
If you’re the kind of person who sits around reading self-help books all day without applying any of it then you’ll forget about everything you’ve learnt.
I'll give you two choices to pick up the ball and run with it...take it or leave it…your decision won’t affect me the slightest, but you can impact your confidence and change your life forever.
Here’s the deal…do the things you would normally feel uncomfortable doing.
Smile…and go out of your way if you have to
Walk right up to a perfect stranger and start a conversation.
Practice your conversation and listening skills.
Do everything you can think of to improve your people skills.
Do everything you can with the knowledge I've shared with you so far.
Do you know what I want you to do?
I want you to go practice step-by-step the lessons I’ve shared with you so far. Got it?
Go out and challenge yourself to overcome your shyness in favor of self-confidence.
It's your choice!
Turn off your computer, go out in public and present the self-confident real you…do something by getting of your backside right now.
I welcome your feedback or suggestions as I’m committed to you living a happier life with the help of glowing confidence and self-esteem.
Confidence self esteem ¶ 3:37 PM 0 comments
