Confidence self esteem...More than hyped-up hope and false exuberance? Confidence self esteem

When your heartfelt desire is matched by a mental image that's in harmony with what you want the world will beat a path to your door, so look out world here I come...


Focus on what you want. Keep smiling, be happy and have fun!

Dear Valued Friend,

First thing...thanks for you time and for stopping by to take a look ways to increase your confidence and self-esteeem you're much appreciated.

The truth is self-Esteem is different from self-image because your self-esteem goes hand in hand with your confidence.

Confidence is your ability to handle the basic challenges of daily life and self-esteem is the feelings of being worthy and deserving the benefits of your efforts.

Do you believe it's your right to be successful and happy?

IF you answered "YES" the age of cliche' of instant gratification doesn't really apply, however, if glowing confidence and self-esteem is what you're looking for...do you have a self-image that's clear or pretty vague?

What a stupid question, you might also ask.

Well, hang onto your horse and let me explain...

But while I do... keep this question in mind and answer it alongside me.

Your confidence and self-esteem...consists of a precise formula of dominating thoughts, including self-image based upon how you see yourself and how you feel about yourself!

Does that sound right to you?

If your self-image is limiting would you be struggling every step of the way and not have the confidence...or desire to persevere until you succeed?

Now…when you go back to the basics, it's all about doing what is necessary and what works best.

So how do you keep yourself empowered?

Now, let's take that thought a bit further...how do you know what works best?

Once you start thinking what do you want, everything falls into place and you take the action in building confidence which is a crucial factor for any successful result.

On the other hand, do you have vision to take action?

What does matter is the question I asked you earlier: "What do you want?"

Ok. Even when times are tough do you to stick to your guns?

Do you see yourself as a confident and positive person?

Do you move towards your dream of a living life to the fullest with a brighter future?

Do you tell yourself you will make a difference everyday and reach your goals?

How do you feel about about yourself right now?

Now let me ask you...do you believe if you did nothing and just sat around saying positive affirmations all day you'd be achieving your dreams?

Maybe it's unfair to call affirmations trickery, manipulation or brainwashing. Rinse. Lather and repeat...

After all, it's a system, so there's a way of cracking it without much effort, so why not take the quick and dirty shortcut and move on?

Like, saying 'I am confident.' would that help you or be a total waste of time?

While we're on this subject...do you think how you talk to yourself plays a minor or major role?

Just to set the records straight...

In general affirmations don't really work because your dominate thoughts are controlling your brain.

This means your self-image reflects what you feel inside and tells your body what to do...your emotional energy is then expressed on the outside in the form of action or non-action.

Action or re-action also known as cause and affect...surprised?

Shoot, why not, it makes sense, doesn't it?

Hmmm maybe you're wondering if repeating positive statements wouldn't have any positive effect unless they match your self-image?

You'd be right on...but does it makes sense to do what you're wanting, and then build your confidence and self-esteem around that?

Instead of confusing the issue, just keep four words in your mind: "What do I really want?"

You begin the whole process by visualizing yourself as having what you want, then crystallizing feeling what it would be like to already have it, but understanding that you don't yet have it.

When you imagine or picture what you want and actually have a burning excitement, a emotional tnesion deep down driving feeling inside of what you want, you're on the right track.

The true key is your mental image must be in harmonious alignment with what you are doing... if your feeling are mixed with resistance and of less than deserving, then you'll never get what you want.

This feeling is the root of confidence and self-esteem, keeps you going until you believe without a doubt, you've convince yourself it's really what you want regardless of the ups and downs.

You start with the image you have in your mind and you must stay clearly focused on that goal or outcome.

Then is required on a daily basis because you want to build your outer world to reflect your inner world.

Simple isn't it?

So the next time you're stuck in a rut, and are despairing about your situation, stop what you're doing, take a step back and ask yourself this simple question:

“What do I want?”

When you've glowing confidence and self-esteem, you've the knowledge to take action because your results are determined by your thoughts and feelings, which direct your action.

If you're not moving towards the results you want, you need to change your thoughts and feelings (for which you're responsible), and this will change your actions.

In other words, if you're not enjoying the level of success, happiness and richness you want in your life, quit whining and change it...today!

Basically you want to discover who you are as opposed to what you do.

Then choose what you want to be...get the picture?

Confidence self esteem  ¶ 9:40 AM 0 comments