"All appears to change when we change." - Henri-Frédéric Amiel -
You won't want to miss this one, it'll be controversial...what's your self-image saying?
Dear Friend,
Thanks for taking the next step because it's another day with a brighter self-image.
Huh! Come again?
Your self-image is your mental identity...
Did you know you're being targeted and re-programmed?
I don't know about you, but this makes me a little nervous.
Quickly, glance over your shoulder make sure you're not exposed, vulnerable and in real danger of losing your unique identity...
Stop whatever you're doing, slide your chair closer...read every word carefully and listen closely.
Now keep in mind, I've already done most of the digging and hard work for you.
Imagine what your life would be like when you've a reliable self-image...be proud of being who you are, what you can do and who you will become...that's the underlying theme or message.
Where does your self-image come from?
Picture how you see yourself, it's associated with feelings/emotions that are part of your ideology (organized system of beliefs) and introspection (your thoughts and sensations) the fact of being who you are...
If it sounds too good to be true, don't be so easily fooled, there is such a system.
It exists because self-images are formed and shaped by your lifes experiences.
Self-images are a combined make-up from your all your actions or inactions, successes or failures, accomplishments, and daily habits.
You get the picture!
The only catch is that you'll have to give up sex...keep reading to find out why?
For example:
Your self-image: "you see yourself as a sophisticated and smooth operator...an excellent lover, communicator, skilled at reading womens body language, and so very cool with the chicks.
But in reality, you fall short of the mark, you may find that you're just not quite at that level because the babes you've been hitting on are loose and easy but the classy women you're now wanting are actually a lot smarter and more difficult to please.
So now you see your self-image in a different light, maybe a little less skilled and maybe you're out of your league...not that much of a player after all...but don't worry that's about to change.
You see...
Your self-image can be anything at anytime because in life, as you evolve as an individual your self-image is actually being shaped or changed in relation to your experiences and habits.
Another example:
Right now, you may feel you're a red hot salesman...next year, after a string of illogical decisions that took you to bankruptcy, in retrospection you might see yourself as a deflated useless idiot.
You made the choice so how do you climb out of the 'money hole' self-image?
As you can see...your self-images can move from one extreme to another, it may not always be the same because in spite of time, your self-images are in a continuous flow and movement of uncertain change.
So what?
Why are some people doing so well...while so many others are barely eeking out a living?
Good question, today, it doesn't mean that you'll always see yourself as what or who ever!
The real beauty of life is you can have another choice...
You've the choice to therefore change the exact meaning of how you see your self-image.
The only challenge is you're always changing your current way of unthinking!
Huh! But that's pretty difficult to do, isn't it?
This is just too cool and I just knew you'd love to know about it.
I found the answer to that question myself 10 years ago.
Let me think...hmmm.
Well, yes and no, changing your unconscious thought patterns, you know those instantaneous responses and reactions that got you where you are now happened because you're too busy being busy and that means you're usually doing nothing.
"Hey buster, you want a punch on the nose..."
Lol...spare me your chump change while I show you a trick or two.
Listen. You are being distracted by a bunch of dead-end images.
Everytime you watch tv, listen to the radio or read some glossy magazine with naked women spread eagle on the centre page, you're seeing someone elses image of you.
(although, you can always mail you copy to this address for further evaluation)
Serioulsy, what I suggest you do is concentrate on the one image you do want.
Ah ha! (the light shines even brighter)...you get it!
Hmmm..."so how do I go about changing my self-image again?"
Would you like to have the same opportunity I did?
Firstly, you must see yourself in a new glowing light from a different perspective and that means focusing your energy and effort on holding the image of yourself as one of a success.
Things just haven't been the same since.
In other words, you want to be clear to step-up to the plate, take an almighty swing, connect the ball and quickly move from first base to second and then to third base and way to go homer.
The only problem you might have with that is you might get distracted...
For example:
To improve your self-image and be greater at something no matter what level you're currently playing, the image that you've of yourself now must be one of someone who is successful, no matter what day or month or year it is...
You're want to be moving towards success under any and all circumstances.
Easier said than done...Johni boy.
I'll be taking advantage of this new opportunity...shouldn't you at least take a look?
"So tell me how the heck can I do that "self-image" thingy when my thoughts are here and there, all over the place, nothing more than a bunch of scattered images of half-clad, big breasted and hot sexy babes wearing G-string bikinis."
I like your style and sense of humor.
That's way too funny grass-hopper...now come closer while I clip you round the ears.
Goddam it! Pay attention here's a simple answer...take it or leave it.
Focus your new self-image on being a successful monk and stop complaining about it.
"Have you completely lost your mind?"
What!
Ummm can't you take a hint...hit the road wise guy (don't bother me now, I'm reading the center page spread)
Jeeze, are you're still here?
(all of a sudden an almighty bang as streamer and party balloons fill the air, stripper jump out of cakes and start dancing on the tables...ooops sorry, too make info)
Well done ol boy, thats the spirit, yes we have a winner here.
You passed the test with flying colors, you've what it takes to change your self-image.
You've the heart and courage of a lion, I admire your confidence and intelligence.
Now I'm going to reward you with the definitive masters class, thats the high level of continued success you really want to enjoy without going "cold turkey".
Step right up...claim your prize as I explain your actions, intentions and policy of manifestation.
If you want to be omnipotent, you must refuse to pay attention, ignore any distractions and concentrate on just one image...
In other words, you must be once and for all clear, finally and decisively to continually live, breath and experience your new image of yourself as one of success.
That of course doesn't happen at the snap of your finger tips...but as brutually honest as life is, you've got to actually do something, and you already knew that even before you started reading.
Want to know the secret?
You certainly can't do anything if you're constantly holding onto your past and seeing yourself as an "average" person afraid to step-up in life, taking a risk and setting your standards too low.
You want success...
Move higher up the mountain and get a birds eye view of the image you left behind.
There's a saying: "your past does not equal your future" that is...
Unless you're happy to settle for second best, seeing your-self image as a someone who was rather than is motivated towards being successful.
Success is an experience, an attitude and ongoing enjoyable process, not a one time event.
You've got to play hard ball if you wnat the lime light.
Align your attitude with self-image to constantly do better.
These are the beliefs and self-talk of people who are winners...
There's no better way than telling yourself often:
"I want...I can and I will" succeed at something and stay a success at that something because it is possible.
When you burn the new self-image into your mind, you are successful.
You'd agree there's no sense in doing something half way...
I welcome your feedback, your questions, and your suggestions for future issues.
By the way...it doesn't hurt to take a quick peek every now and then, wink.
I just can't help giving you more all important 'insider's edge' that makes all the difference in your new self-image success.
More power to you!
It's time for you to step up, focus on your target and ask yourself what can I do today that I really don't feel comfortable in doing, but if I did do it would change my self-image?
Thanks for reading, see ya soon.
Have a funtastic day...yours truly
Confidence self esteem
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